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Today we’re discussing two questions sent in from a mom, and we suspect that most parents can relate to the first one—how do we deal with the eye rolls, sighs, and other “junk behaviors” that often accompany the tween and teen years? We talk about how frustrating interactions can indicate that our kids have reached a new stage of development and share ways to teach them how to express themselves better as they get older. In the second half of the podcast, we discuss tips for blending an adoptive or foster child into your family. Author Kelle Hampton joins the conversation as we explore ways to teach kids to communicate and help them feel secure, even amid transition.

Here are the questions:

“Hi, I’m wondering how you deal with “junk behavior” like eye rolls and talking back? I’ve heard many parents just ignore it, how do you find a balance between offering ids grace for mistakes and teaching appropriate behavior and boundaries. Also, we are adopting a 12 year old (2 weeks older than our bio 12 year old). Any tips for welcoming a new tween into our home or for blended families with sibling so close in age. (Our eldest is also being replaced as the eldest, so that’s tricky.)”

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• Order The 6 Needs of Every Child: Empowering Parents & Kids through the Science of Connection